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@neendo, I'm trying trying really hard to assume you don't intend to insult other members of this board, because that would be flaming and is just wrong.
As for your totally innocent and well meaning question: you need to understand why so many people are upset with your behavior, intentional or not.
When you first joined you started by filling the "details hiding in the shadows" thread with
a lot of requests. It did not help matters that the requests seemed as if you were just scanning random websites and posting every explicit scene there. Most of them had been rehashed countless times before (you didn't bother to search) and needed no enhancement to tell if they are explicit or not. Enhancing a video is time consuming and a lot of work, and the members doing it are basically doing you a favor. A brand new user, who had yet to contribute anything himself, bombarding them with a list of demands is not a good look. Imagine you had a party for a group of your closest friends and bought everyone pizzas, and then a friend of a friend you don't know joined the party, ate all the pizza and kept demanding you order him more - how would you react to such a person?
After a while you started contributing and I at least am appreciative of that, but all the scenes you posted are from well known porn sites. Posting such links is OK, but you didn't really post anything new or unknown to members of this board. Most of us know for ourselves how to search the big porn sites (xvideos, daftsex, ...) for scenes, so this seemed to some people, perhaps unfairly, as spamming: posting unasked-for links to porn sites.
Add to that the fact that you mistakenly made several posts in the wrong forums: "The Amateurs" was posted to the Vimeo thread although it was from txxx, and "Russian Lolita" was posted to the Explicit forum before I moved it to the Graphic forum. This, and the current thread, made some people think that you don't respect the rules of the board, and by extension them. Would you react kindly to a guest at your home that enters with mud-covered boots, leaves footprints all over your clean floor and then proceeds to jump up and down on your sofa while still wearing those boots?
I'm sure you didn't intend to come off like that, and you truly wish to be a contributing member of this board. You just need to mind a bit more what you do and how other members might see this. Respect the rules, be kind to other members, learn how the forum veterans post and behave and I'm sure you'll fit in in no time
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Remember that everyone here is a human with feelings and can get upset or make mistakes. Except for bots. They are shot on sight.