Do not denigrate my words, let's discuss them in harmony.
I was just sharing my personal point of view. And I think you understood my point very well.
I wanted to say that in absolute terms this remains an “intimate” act. It is not a trivial act like shopping at the store. Non-porn actors show themselves in an intimate act and unfortunately, it wouldn't surprise me if sometimes the actors later regret accepting the project. We must then assume the scene, because once the film is released, the scene will remain on the Internet for life. Nothing disappears from the Internet.
Yes, in absolute, for a person who does porn, sex, for her, is her job.
Precisely, that's the distinction I made, in a mainstream film an explicit sex scene is not as easy to edit as in a porno. Casting takes forever, it may never even happen.
The actors talk a lot before the scenes, to take the example of the “first time” scene. The day before the scene was filmed, the actors spoke for several hours to exchange their points of view.
Of course, the actors are not in love, it is sex without feeling, however, the directors wanted the most natural scene possible, they did not want mechanical sex. To do this, on the day of filming, the technical team was very small to make things easier. Lots of discussions before filming.
And I think the directors did their job very well. And precisely, that's what makes the scene interesting, it's the fact that these are not porn actors and the fact that it's not mechanical sex, mechanical sex, there are plenty of them on the internet. And I suppose that the directors would have preferred that the entire cast were non-pornographic actors, but it is clear that they could not do otherwise. It's already a miracle that one of the acting duos doesn't come from porn.
I had a friend, his family works in cinema (in France) and they told me the story of a gay short film and it was supposed to have an explicit gay scene and the casting was very complicated! the director didn't want a porn actor. It took them a long time to complete the casting and ultimately the project never saw the light of day, with many setbacks.
Yes, I also think that explicit sex in cinema will remain taboo, but I also think that in 90% of films it is not necessary.